Dejanira getting sexually assaulted by Nessus |
A few days ago I published an article on Dejanira and promised to give more details about her role in our natal chart and synastry. In a natal chart she represents a place where we can get victimized, sign shows the reason or channel of victimization. In synastry, she can reveal where and how we can get victimized. So, let's take a look:
Dejanira in Ist house natal:
This person is a victim of aggression, his/her own personal will and action. It is likely that this person suffers "personal abuse", she/he may appear to be a victim or magnet and attract attention of sexual abusers. This person may go through an abuse on "body, face and/or mind".
Deja in Ist house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim for directing his/her aggression, personal will and action. The house person may also be attracted to the body of the deja person or looks of the deja person in an incessant way especially if there are conjunctions to deja.
Dejanira in 2nd house natal:
This person is a victim in terms of security, finance, savings, emotional needs and beauty.
Deja in 2nd house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim for gaining resources, money, emotional or financial security or beauty.
Deja in 3rd house natal:
This person is a victim in terms of communication, media, writing, neighbors, siblings. This deja can go through mental abuse and can become victim of sexual abuse through sexting or media.
Deja in 3rd house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim of communication, media , writing, neighbors and/or siblings.
Deja in 4th house natal:
This person is a victim of family, mother, home country, traditions, matriarchal family, emotions, insecurities, real estate and roots.
Deja in 4th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim for patronizing or controlling through 4th house themes.
Deja in 5th house natal:
This person is a victim of creativity, fun, gambling, sports, bossiness, theater, children or stage and/or even royalty.
Deja in 5th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim considering the 5th house themes.
Deja in 6th house natal:
This person is a victim at work, daily routine, health, service, animal welfare and of enemies.
Deja in 6th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim considering 6th house themes.
Deja in 7th house natal:
This person is a victim in partnerships, relationships, business negotiations, lawsuits.
Deja in 7th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a victim or potential magnet in partnerships, marriage, relationships, business negotiations and/or lawsuits.
Deja in 8th house natal:
The person is a victim in sex, inheritance, power, black magic, sexual diseases, mafia, other's money, spying, mystery, psychology, occult, insurance, death and kundalini.
Deja in 8th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim of sex, inheritance, black magic, sexual diseases, mafia, power, other's money, spying, mystery etc.
Deja in 9th house natal:
The person is a victim of travel, learning, religion, adventure, horses, sports, racing, foreign shores, foreign languages and/or foreign people.
Deja in 9th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim of travel, sports, racing, learning, religion, adventure, horses, foreign shores, foreign languages.
Deja in 10th house natal:
The person is a victim of politics, public profession, professional status, professional politics and public image.
Dejanira in 10th house synastry:
The house person views the Dejanira person as a potential magnet or victim of politics, public profession, professional status, professional politics and public image.
Dejanira in 11th house natal:
The person is a victim of social circles, friends, distant relationships, internet, social media, group movements, teams, sports teams, freedom and innovation.
Dejanira in 11th house synastry:
The house person views the Dejanira person as a potential magnet or victim of social circles, friends, distant relationships, internet, social media, group movements, teams, sports teams, freedom and innovation.
Dejanira in 12th house natal:
The person is a victim of imagination, spirituality, delusions, hospitals, charity, dreams and old people.
Dejanira in 12th house synastry:
The house person views the Dejanira person as a potential magnet or victim of of imagination, spirituality, delusions, hospitals, charity, dreams and old people.
In a man's chart Dejanira can also symbolize the girl whom he finds to be a sexual magnet. She can be the girl he secretly wishes to dominate or hold captive. In a woman's chart Nessus can symbolize the man she can become a victim of or the type of man she would attract to dominate/ manipulate her. He can also be the man on whom she keeps her faith in a naive manner.
The houses can be replaced for signs, for e.g. Deja in 1st house can be interpreted as Deja in Aries. Let me know your views on this article.
This person is a victim in partnerships, relationships, business negotiations, lawsuits.
Deja in 7th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a victim or potential magnet in partnerships, marriage, relationships, business negotiations and/or lawsuits.
Deja in 8th house natal:
The person is a victim in sex, inheritance, power, black magic, sexual diseases, mafia, other's money, spying, mystery, psychology, occult, insurance, death and kundalini.
Deja in 8th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim of sex, inheritance, black magic, sexual diseases, mafia, power, other's money, spying, mystery etc.
Deja in 9th house natal:
The person is a victim of travel, learning, religion, adventure, horses, sports, racing, foreign shores, foreign languages and/or foreign people.
Deja in 9th house synastry:
The house person views the Deja person as a potential magnet or victim of travel, sports, racing, learning, religion, adventure, horses, foreign shores, foreign languages.
Deja in 10th house natal:
The person is a victim of politics, public profession, professional status, professional politics and public image.
Dejanira in 10th house synastry:
The house person views the Dejanira person as a potential magnet or victim of politics, public profession, professional status, professional politics and public image.
Dejanira in 11th house natal:
The person is a victim of social circles, friends, distant relationships, internet, social media, group movements, teams, sports teams, freedom and innovation.
Dejanira in 11th house synastry:
The house person views the Dejanira person as a potential magnet or victim of social circles, friends, distant relationships, internet, social media, group movements, teams, sports teams, freedom and innovation.
Dejanira in 12th house natal:
The person is a victim of imagination, spirituality, delusions, hospitals, charity, dreams and old people.
Dejanira in 12th house synastry:
The house person views the Dejanira person as a potential magnet or victim of of imagination, spirituality, delusions, hospitals, charity, dreams and old people.
In a man's chart Dejanira can also symbolize the girl whom he finds to be a sexual magnet. She can be the girl he secretly wishes to dominate or hold captive. In a woman's chart Nessus can symbolize the man she can become a victim of or the type of man she would attract to dominate/ manipulate her. He can also be the man on whom she keeps her faith in a naive manner.
The houses can be replaced for signs, for e.g. Deja in 1st house can be interpreted as Deja in Aries. Let me know your views on this article.
Read related article about Nessus in Houses, Signs and Synastry
Comments
When your Deja falls in the fourth house, the house person may try to patronize the deja person. When in Leo, he or she'll think it to be his birth right or dominate without asking for consent. However, Deja should always be viewed along with Nessus and never alone. It is important to see what one person's Nessus does in his or her chart. The one who has a strong Nessus may act like a victim but may have an upper hand in the relationship.
Nessus in third house is speaking without control. In the house of cancer, it may be cranky, emotional ranting full of highs and lows. If you feel that you are not that aggressive, then it might because of a stronger Deja in your chart. If your Deja is in good aspects with Moon,Venus or Jupiter then you might be the softer one. Also, Deja with Valentine or other love asteroids is soft. While is Nessus acts like he's the boss.
Now, to answer your question. It also depends upon the house your deja falls in their chart. What aspect she does in their chart. That's why I have added the synastry part.
Now, for you, Scorpio is the sign of sex and hidden things. It also rules power. So, I assume that you were bullied and sexually abused. Uranus is the planet of chaos, abrupt, illogical and out of the blue meetings. It squares your Dejanira which falls in your 10th house. May I know your Uranus falls? I guess either in the 1st or 7th. Pluto rules your 10th house, Pluto is the planet of power, sex and hidden things.
Therefore, in your professional circumstances, you may find the return of the past. There may be issues related to power, sex, hidden things that can bring out your childhood abuse patterns bring out chaos (Uranus). The chaos can come from you or from your partner/s if the Uranus is in the 1st or 7th house.
I have childhood abuse from my Father.
Can you explain more deeple?
with Dejanira conjunct my Juno I couldnt have any relationship (mariage) without abuse??
For the abuse from your father you must look for Nemesis placement. Nessus is your own ID. If your Deja is in the first house in pisces then you are vulnerable to spiritual attacks. You can get misleaded into illusions and by old souls. Also, you give out an aura of vulnerability. Juno conjunct deja means vulnerable in commitment.
I just found out about Dejanira - I have no (remembered) history of abuse outside of very intense bullying by all the girls in my class (small school) in 7th grade. That doesn't seem in line with what's in my chart, though...
After looking into mine, I found out it's exactly conjunct my Venus at 2° Scorpio, 12th House. In fact, Venus 2°24', Deja 2°25'. I also have Pluto in Scorpio in the 12th and Scorpio rising.
My Venus is also the apex of a yod, with Mars at 4° Aries and Jupiter 0° Gemini.
It's also a 'leg' (one of the sextiles) of a boomerang, with Jupiter as apex at 0°Gem, Saturn/Uranus 0°Cap, and (Mercury 0°Sag, Sun 3°Sag).
My question is - in trying to understand my yods/boomerang aspect patterns, this adds to the confusion. Would you add in the 'victimhood' element to the Venus/Scorpio/12th because of the exact Deja conjunction? Any thoughts, or recommendations for further research would be so greatly appreciated. I'm now wondering if it being my 12th house makes it even more difficult to grasp.
I have Dejanira in 5th house, conjunct Neptune, square Sun, trine Ascendant, and sextile Pluto. What do you mean, victim of creativity or theater?
Because, theater is one of my hoby. Sometimes, older days, participate in many theatrical playngs.
Please, explain me, because I learn from astrology, and I love it very much.
Eleni