Relationships and Marriage Astrology: Significance of Venus, Mars, Moon and Sun signs Part 1

If you are confused or tired looking for the right partners and relationships. Then astrology can help you out. This article will help you understand basic ideas with which you will know the type of men or women you attract and the ones you are attracted to. You will also know if your synastry would work or it won't.

Look at the pic given. Here, is an explanation given by me about the type of men you attract and are attracted as per your Sun, Mars, Venus and Moon sign. For women, they must know that moon is their motherly or protective instinct so in love and relationships it will come after attraction that is Venus. However, marriage may be more about Moon followed by Venus.

The example in the first picture is about how you get attracted to men belonging to the same element in which your Sun and Mars falls. The second thing is the house in which your Sun and Mars falls as well. But most importantly, it is your Sun and Mars elements. Some astrologers consider that trines are only with degrees and not by signs. I will explain some myths exercised by modern astrologers who are usually jumping the gun in writing off a relationship. My astrological experience and education is based on both Vedic and Western astrology. Therefore, elements have their say and so do signs. First and foremost you must know that astrology follows rules but rules vary. It doesn't mean that people with no personal planet synastry can be a happily everafter couple. However, it doesn't mean that a couple with a few bad aspects will "break-off" and hence, should never enter into a relationship. Relationships no matter how bad they are, come with a purpose. You have to understand the greater meaning than just the literal one. Degrees tell you how close you two can be. But degrees will have an effect depending upon the strength of the planet in your chart. The rulership of that planet also matters. At first, you have to know what makes you click and who clicks with you. This article is all about making you aware 

Relationship and Attraction Astrology Pointers for Women:

Sun: The man you marry is what Sun represents in your chart. The one who he is the illuminating factor, father figure and reliable person who brings an "identity" to your life. Therefore, the sign in which Sun falls will be the kind of man you would want to marry. This is especially true if your moon is conjunct, trine, sextile your Sun. It is also true if your Ven and Mars is sextile, conjunct, trine your Sun. But keep in mind the trine or conjunction should be by sign. A sextile is a less stronger aspect depicting that "it will work" but conjunction and trine are stronger aspects telling you that it will work for sure. I know it must have confused you how a Sun sign can be trine by sign with your mars and venus sign. The answer is simple, by sign trines and conjunctions mean that you belong to the same element. It matters more than you think it does. Most modern astrologers count conjunctions and trines by degrees, to say, mathematically. But astrology is an occult science and not all is maths. Therefore, it follows it's own caste system whether you agree or don't, the people who are in your "element" are your immediate friends, pals and partners. In love, you are attracted to people who belong to your element and if your Venus sign is compatible with your Sun and Mars signs then you will attract people belonging to your element. This is the basic makeup of finding the right man and the right relationship.

Let's take an example, just view the first picture. In the picture you can see, that the Sun is in fire element. I have mentioned that Mars should also be in either fire or air sign followed by Venus. Less emphasis is been put on moon unless it rules your Asc, Desc or 5th house. If all the three are in congruence then you be assured that you love fire and enthusiasm in men. You should also portray your fiery and independent streak to attract the man of your dreams.

Mars: The lover of the zodiac, mars is the first boyfriend you lose your heart, body and mind to. He makes you do stupid things. He makes you look like a love struck dove. His passion and aggression strikes you hard. It may work or not, but he will always be the first love of your life. So, if you have a mars in fire sign then you should look for the athletic go-getters, party lovers and macho men. Those with mars in water sign love sensitivity, creativity and emotions in men. If you have mars in earth signs then money and stability matter to you. For those with mars in air signs, love intellect and communication along with complete independence in men. Now, here is an interesting fact, this is the description of your boyfriend personality but if your Sun is not in "element" with your mars then you will marry a man who will be contradicting your choice of lovers. Most of the time if your Sun and Mars are in hard aspects with each other then your boyfriend is not your husband and your husband can never be your boyfriend. But if the person you are dating has a mars in the same element as your sun and vice versa, then you may found your match. Having Sun Mars hard aspects are frustrating for your love and married life because you may never feel fulfilled. This will especially be true if your moon, 5th house ruler and Venus get along with your mars more than your Sun. This may mean that your marriage will be with a person whom you thought was good for your "identity" but not good for your emotions, sexuality and beauty.

Venus: When mars appeals to your Venus, you can't resist the temptation. You want to jump the gun and just rebel against the world for him.When Sun appeals to your Venus, your creativity and comfort is triggered. You imagine your life with that man and think about having children with him. It is a feel good aspect. However, if your Venus is not compatible with your Sun and Mars then you attract the "wrong types". For example, if your Sun and Mars are both in air signs and your Venus is in a water sign then you attract sensitive, emotional and creative mates. These people give more importance to feelings and bonding than intellect. Therefore, you will find it frustrating when your partner although he or she may be in "element" with your Venus do not live up to your "Mars and Sun" expectations. This man may trigger your sexuality but he will not be your "dream boyfriend or husband" because he will give more significance to feelings while you want detachment.  Assume the man who is attracted to you has Sun in an earth sign and mars is in the water sign then neither your Sun and Mars are in "element" with him. Hence, you will not get along with him after the "boyfriend" phase is over. Perhaps, he will be a very short-term boyfriend. On the contrary, if your Mars and Venus are in the same element or same sign then you will have a deep affair with the man having the same mars sign or element. If your Sun, Mars and Venus are in same or compatible signs or elements then the man with mars in same or compatible signs or elements will be the "ideal man". In case, rest of the mathematics of synastry goes right except for a few bad aspects then you can have a good relationship that can culminate in marriage with this man.

I will be posting the Part -2 of this article that will be about Relationship and Attraction Astrology Pointers for Men. So, keep visiting the blog and become a member - It's free! You can ask your questions in the comments section given below.